“We have been using what children care about against them. We’ve been calling it consequences.” When Dr. Gordon Neufeld speaks about attachment, he reminds us that the real purpose of attachment is as a delivery system for care. When a child feels deeply attached, they naturally feel their own caring — no lesson needed. But for generations now, we’ve routinely used what matters most to children against them: taking away what they love, threatening disconnection, calling it “discipline” or “conse
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Gordon Neufeld on Sibling Rivalry: Sibling rivalry is a very common problem. By treating our children as equals, we think we’re doing them a favor, but the attachment processes don’t work this way. If you help matchmake one to be the answer to the other, they move to take care of each other, to help each other, rather than compete with each other. And if we got those kinds of things right, we would have much less problems with sibling conflict and rivalry. Find courses and free resources from Go
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“For transplanting to be successful, children need to adopt their new ‘parents’.” — Gordon Neufeld When children experience a change in who is raising them—through adoption, fostering, step-parenting, loss, or changes in custody—their attachment roots are inevitably affected. Even when these changes are made with care and good intentions, the developmental impact can be significant. This clip is from Dr. Gordon Neufeld’s course 'Art & Science of Transplanting Children'. In this course, Gordon Ne
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Join leading expert in attachment, Dr. Gordon Neufeld, at our spring conference as he walks us through The Dance of Attachment which explores the pivotal role attachment plays in our everyday lives, and how we can support our children in building strong, secure relationships. | Institute of Child Psychology
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