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Gordon Neufeld on Sibling Rivalry: Sibling rivalry is a very common problem. By treating our children as equals, we think we’re doing them a favor, but the attachment processes don’t work this way. If you help matchmake one to be the answer to the other, they move to take care of each other, to help each other, rather than compete with each other. And if we got those kinds of things right, we would have much less problems with sibling conflict and rivalry. Find courses and free resources from Go
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“Attachment really is the science of relationship, and we're all in relationship. Every particle in the universe is in relationship. The brain is made up of neurons that are attached. There's no life outside of attachment. So some people think it is simply an idea. No, attachment is the relationship of everything and the science of it. The absolutely exciting discovery was when science assumed it was our survival, that was the basic drive, only to find that in mammals it is not survival. It is a
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Anxiety and the Alarm System in Children | Dr. Gordon Neufeld “Anxiety is the conscious tip of the brain’s alarm system.” – Dr. Gordon Neufeld Anxiety isn’t the problem—it’s a signal. It tells us that a child’s alarm system has been activated, usually because they’re facing more separation than they can handle. When the separation is too much to bear, the brain hides the true source of alarm. That’s when fears, obsessions, and compulsions appear—monsters in the dark, constant worries, or endless
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Our deepest drive isn’t survival — it’s togetherness. In this clip, Dr. Gordon Neufeld explains emotion as Nature’s way of taking care of our most basic need: attachment. When something goes wrong, our first impulse is to seek our people — Where’s mom? Where’s dad? Where’s my family? — even if it means moving toward danger rather than away from it. Emotion, in his words, serves attachment. It rises most strongly when separation is faced and works to close the gap between us. When we see behaviou
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“Parenthood is above all a relationship, not a skill to be acquired.” - Gordon Neufeld in 'Hold On to Your Kids' In this clip, Dr. Gordon Neufeld reminds us that the heart of parenting isn’t found in techniques or perfect moves. It begins in relationship — in showing up as the answer your child is seeking. Link in bio at @neufeldinstitute *** This is a clip from an episode of Robot Unicorn Podcast hosted by Jess VanderWier from @nurturedfirst To hear the full conversation, search for the episode
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“Children must never work for our love. They must rest in it.” - Gordon Neufeld. Many of us have made the same mistakes. We have said things like: "I can’t be your friend if you’re going to be like that. Off to your room. I withdraw the invitation to exist in my presence…" Everyday interactions like this can place children in charge of preserving the connection. Too often, they find themselves working for the relationship—holding on when that role was never meant to be theirs. The restlessness t
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“Every single emotion has its reason. It may be irrational, but th…
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“If you don't feel your emptiness, you'll lose the capacity to ever fee…
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Digital play is depersonalized pursuit of attachment; it uses the …
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“Parenting is not supposed to be about us. We’re supposed to be th…
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“For transplanting to be successful, children need to adopt their new ‘…
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"When we lose our playfulness, we're in trouble. Children need to …
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“The screens are not about screens. It’s not just about screens — it’s a…
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The most powerful force in parenting is invisible — and yet ev…
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“What’s going on behind the eyes? What’s going on inside of these c…
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We can't cause growth. We can't cause the unfolding of potential. - …
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What is the need for 'true tears' - Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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Play is meant to take care of our emotion. Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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Play is the lightning rod for all emotion that have difficulty being …
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Resilience is not a skill to be learned. - Dr. Gordon Neufeld
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